Category Archives: Celebrities

Mar 26 2013

When a Man Seeks to Embarrass & Destroy: The “Pending” Divorce of Porsha Stewart

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I was very shocked to hear that the husband of Porsha Stewart (the newbie on Real Housewives of Atlanta) reportedly filed for divorce against her. Huh, the nerve of this downlow brother.

Money or no money, Kordell Stewart, is not a prize to anyone. He is extremely corny; he makes Nick Cannon look like the stud muffin of the year. Atlanta is all about living the high style life so I’m not going to judge Porsha for marrying such a dweeb… Maybe she fell victim to the love of a man with money who wanted a young, naive, woman who would come and help his “image”. I don’t know them so I can’t judge; all I do know is marriage these days for public figures is a joke and someone has to speak up about it.

I only watched a few episodes of Real Housewives of Atlanta this season but from the episodes I saw Porsha seemed to be obedient to her husband and allowed him to play the man role… Well atleast that’s how it looked on tv. I remember seeing a promo for an episode where Nene Leakes (Porsha’s fellow housewife who had admittedly been in an abusive relationship in her past) said in her interview scene that Kordell was controlling.

A man who feel the need to control a G.A.W (Grown Ass Woman) obviously has a problem. Homegirl even seemed too scared to go to a female strip club. Gah, where they do that at? (In my most ghettoist voice ever, lol). Maybe Kordell wasn’t whipping her ass but there was definitely something he was leveraging against her in his pursuit of control… I can tell you guys what it was… It was the money and the name.

I can tell that Porsha loves the power it brings to be Kordell Stewart’s wife especially in the city of Atlanta. She drives a benz around town and pull up to a mansion. She can shop, socialize, and try to get her singing career off the ground without worrying about her bills. She loved the fact that her husband could drop money on her without a problem and she loved to rub her marital status in (her other co-star) Kenya Moore’s face. It was like waaaam bish, I’m married to a baller and you’re not… Oh but look at her ass now.

My assumption is Porsha started to rebel against the tight regime of Kordell Stewart. Think about it, she’s getting her own money now (episode fees go up as you go along in Reality TV-land) and she is now famous from her own right. So now she doesn’t have to listen to every single thing her rich husband has to say. Kordell, in straight Deion Sanders fashion, decided that he’s not going to deal with it… So he embarrasses her by announcing he’s divorcing her and has a nerve to put out a statement talking about “it’s difficult.”

Duh Kordell, of course it’s difficult but whats worse is you could have kept it cute and gracefully bowed out but nooooo, instead you decided to make a public stinct and now she is embarrassed. All that bragging and all that insta-balling she participated in is now coming to an end and with no children between them and a marriage of two years or less, she most likely going to get a alimony check and a get-out-the-mansion-by June demand.

See this is why it is good to be an independent woman because when a man with money seek to destroy you, he will win if you don’t have much to fall back on and now she may be forced to kiss the Bravo producers’ ass so that she can at least guarantee herself another season which may help her land herself on her feet or at least another baller… Uugh, I am just happy I will never have to go through this because I will always work to get mine.

We’ll see how this all pan out. All I know is Kordell Stewart really has these heauxs laughing at her, NATIONALLY. I don’t know if he’s doing this as a publicity stunt to scare her or not but whatever it is… She needs to be done with him indefinitely, take her L gracefully, and move on while her baby heads are still perky.

What are your thoughts about this “divorce”!? Is it bullcrap or is it really real? Should Porsha try to save face and be quiet?

Jul 2 2012

Lil’ Scrappy Talks The Struggle of Love in New Video, No Love

Lil Scrappy released a new music video called “No love” featuring Tocarra (a singer from ATL, not the model). I love the video but most of all I love when a young, black, man express their emotions. the video is cute and Lil’ Scrappy looks handsome. He is on his independent grind and a Boss Chick like myself can respect it definitely!

Here are some highlights of the lyrics that stood out to me…

Confused flow, for real though
Love came through the front, went out the back door
Emotions are running, depression is coming
Can’t believe you love me, cause your feelings are funny

Chorus: I’m so tired of going up and down, round and round
I’m so over it, I’m breaking down
I’m bout to call it quits, I done had enough of it
My heart is so cold, I can’t find no love here

My heart on broken, confidence stolen
Mind going crazy, should I stay or keep going
She don’t love me, well I gotta embrace it
If I don’t love her, baby girl you gotta face it
The thang about love you can’t find it you need to trace it
If love was a test, you either fail or you ace it
Love me, for who I am,
If not, shit I don’t give a damn
You want the cars, house and designer things
I get it baby girl, you want the finer things
And I ain’t hatin on you, go and get it now
Matter fact, go and get it, make daddy proud

And lastly,

You wanna upgrade baby and that’s a fact
But you don’t get a nigga just like that
You don’t throw away what we had, just like that
You leave a real nigga shawty i bet you come right back

Now that was some deep ish. I just hope he is able to love someone else again after this heartache. Damn!

What are your thoughts on this new video????

Jul 1 2012

Lust: Why Rosci and Eddie Murphy Disgust Me?

Dear Diary,

I didn’t want to write this post but I wouldnt’t be me if I didn’t. My people over at Global Grind released a picture collage of Rosci Diaz (of 106 and Park) and the legendary actor/comedian Eddie Murphy on the red carpet of the BET Awards dinner and I got disgusted.

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Rosci has been in the press over the past a lot when it came down to men she frequented with such as Lisa Raye’s ex husband, singer Raphael Saadiq, and now Eddie Murphy. I am a bit of a feminist and all down with women exploring their sexuality so I am not judging her sexual past or activity but Bringing Eddie Murphy on the red carpet and being seen half naked on the beach with him is where she has crossed the line.

Eddie Murphy is a bit icky. He has been caught in cars with transgender prostitutes and also abandoned Mel B. (formerly of the Spice Girls) once she got pregnant and decided to keep the baby many years back. It took him a few years to even acknowlege the baby. I understand he has a lot of money and power but where do we as women draw the line?

You can’t tell me that Rosci is just naturally attracted to Eddie. I can’t and won’t believe that or indulge in that kind of fuckery. She is in it for the dough and he is in it for the pleasure of freaking off just another “exotic” looking young chick who has a little fame. Hell since when did Eddie Murphy started going to the negro awards?

Now I’m not knocking Rosci, get your money Baby girl… But she should have some kind of standards for herself. There are just some mofos no one should know you are dealing with, sorry! If she were going to have sex with Eddie or even deal with him in general, she should have kept that as her little secret. That could have been her little sugar daddy that no one knew about but when you put it out there for the world to see, youre giving off the impression that you are serious about the guy and I can’t respect her if she’s taking this debacle seriously.

We women must remember to keep things on the low low when it’s just “business” or when it’s just cocksation and not give light to those who may not be in our life in a few months from now. She must also think about her career in entertainment as a female.

Females in entertainment already receive a bad rap. Many view industry girls as professionals who are really groupies on the low. Yeah I never saw so many Publicists and Stylists in my life. I just charge it to the game. It’s hard to get respect out here and he decides to be boo love at the BET Awards where her peers are and former bosses (because she got the boot a few months ago). Now if it was the Tonys or something that would have been a different story (networking).

Rosci can’t make irresponsible decisions such as letting the cat come out of the bag about her love life then get mad when rappers refer to her as a hoe or when they disrespect her by saying they will blow up how many dudes she really let dick her down in the industry.

All I can say is good luck Rosci. I hope whatever role or status you are trying to get in LA by dealing with Eddie will turn out to be fruitful for you in the future.

I wish these chicks would put in work without putting out but I guess this is the way of life in today’s society.

Damn!

May 30 2012

Lust: Is Rihanna a Hoe or a Young Girl Misunderstood?

Dear Diary,

Before I start this post I would like to give Rihanna’s biggest Twitter fan a shout out. Heyyyyyyy MolestMeRihanna. Her eyes is probably going to pop out of her head when she sees this on my timeline.

Anyway, there has been a lot of chatter on twitter lately about Pop sensation Rihanna and her sexual activities. It seems as if everyone has been taking a dig at her from her mad ex Chris Brown to newcomer rapper Meek Mill to cornball rapper Drake. I don’t know if they are talking about her or not but if they are here is my take on Rihanna and her pum pum.

Rihanna is a beautiful, rich girl, who has had her share of lovers in her young life. She has tried the being in love thing and that apparently didn’t work with both Chris Brown and Matt Kemp. Now she is single and she has the right to mingle and do whatever and whomever she choses. When I write about people I am older than, I try to think about what the hell was I doing at their age.

I have to say, 21-23, was the most dicked-down years that I have ever had in my life. I had just broke it off with my first boyfriend aka first fiance’ who I was with FAITHFULLY since the tender of age of 15 and was straight out of control. I was dealing with dudes that I would never had dealt with if I wasn’t rebelling against myself and my own thoughts. In those years I dealt with a skinny thug dude (it was just sexual), a broke young dude (it was just mental), and a few other dudes who I don’t care to describe in this entry. I messed with a Taurus who was a little bit older than me but he was a psycho who couldn’t cum (yes you read this right) no matter what you did to him. He was a real weirdo who only ejaculated three times in his whole life (hell, that’s what he told me and I believed him- that’s a whole other story).

Finally, in my last months of “being free,” I begin to mess with a dude who I had a crush on since before I had a training bra. I thought he was the one and that it was fate how one night I was describing him to a dude I was networking with and come to find out he was his neighbor and he kind of hooked us up. Man, cold world! We women have to learn the difference between fate and a coincidence. Most of the times, we think we encounter someone on some deep shit and it be the total opposite. I learned a valuable lesson with that dude.

Anyway, me and “the one” ended up not messing with each other after we had a big argument over something that I had supposedly said to his homie (who was mad he wasn’t getting this young, hot cake). I believed that was an excuse because he was much older than me and a bum on a blow up bed. He was a little jealous of my upcoming success and didn’t want a woman like me who was out there getting her name up and rocking Gucci every time she went to his house (hey, I was young).

He wanted someone that he made and that wanted him more than he wanted her. I’ll never forget when I introduced my older lady friend to him, he acted like he wanted to cum on himself (well at least he knew how unlike some people I knew- haha). He was a crazy ass Gemini man who I just didn’t mesh well with. That is the story of my life with me and most men. I get a long with them so good as friends but many men can’t deal with me and I can’t deal with many men; maybe that is why I love my Cassy Poo so much.

After me and homeboy stopped talking, I decided to become celibate because all the men I was either talking to or screwing was a freaking nightmare. They were just unstable creatures. I was doing whatever I wanted to do sexually before I decided to hold on to them drawers but I guess I got tired of the “playgirl” life, so I decided to be by myself.

Within 7 months of bitter celibacy, I met and fell in love with Cas, who I am still with now (almost 4 years later). I was 24-years-old when we made it official which is very young to be settling down now that I look back. So back to Rihanna, she is doing what most young women do and that is testing the waters and seeing what she like and what she doesn’t like. She is not married and does not have any children so she is free to do whatever the hell she wants to do.

The problem with men is that they can’t handle when a lady plays the same game they play. We may can’t play the exact way because we have a vagina and we can get pregnant but you know what I mean. Yes, contrary to what some men may believe, some women can have sex without getting crazy attached and can move on when his di*k is no longer fun or needed like nothing happened. Who are we to judge these type of women? Well, I know I can’t because at one point of my life I was that type of woman. Women are starting to understand what men have known for ever and that sex is just sex. It really isn’t that serious especially if it’s safe and consensual.

These days people place too many social constructs on women who are sexually free and who do whatever the hell they want to do. Yes, we are liberated now and we LOVE sex just as much as men do. The time has changed when women felt bad about giving in to their sexual desires and being scared that he is going to blow up the fact that she gave him some coochie. I could care less who tell who they had sex with me before. Hey, it’s not who FU*KED you before, it’s about who FU*KING you now. Don’t even give a man the power to think that he has something over you because you may have not saved the suck back in the day or maybe a few days ago. We grown…and many men can’t handle a GROWN ASS woman who feel this way when it comes down to bonation (sex)…

Rules have went out of the window…Unfortunately

Everyone wants to be this nice girl and not do this and not do that and who are these guys wifing up now a days? Yup, the hoesssssssss. The big time hoesssssss too. Life has changed and the way men think of women have changed. Men only use sex against you as a way to control you but they can’t have that control over you if you don’t let them.

Being a hoe doesn’t have anything to do with the amount partners you had because if that was the case, most of us will be a hoe, but the PROXIMITY of what you do. That means that a girl can screw only 5 men in her life and if 4 of those boys came from the same block, she is considered a hoe. Thankfully for Rihanna, this rule does not apply to her because she is known on many blocks and everyone hasn’t hit that only maybe a few on the block of “Industry Ave.”

Rihanna seems to me as a young lady who does what the hell she wants to do and I like it but she better also remember that these industry dudes can be very vicious sometimes. I just hope she can handle it all.

Fellas will get further in life if they just shut the hell up and get that coochie but noooooooo dudes these days have a ego and like to assassinate a woman’s (who really don’t give a f*ck) character. Rihanna, keep doing what you doing…You obviously got something if these dudes who get more butts than astrays (Biggie) are mad.

I learned a long time ago in college that you can’t judge a person’s sexual identity on their sexual activity. So with that being said, she’s misunderstood. She can’t help if she is young, sexy, and free.

What are your thoughts??????? Please comment and share!