Dear Diary,
I didn’t want to write this post but I wouldnt’t be me if I didn’t. My people over at Global Grind released a picture collage of Rosci Diaz (of 106 and Park) and the legendary actor/comedian Eddie Murphy on the red carpet of the BET Awards dinner and I got disgusted.
Rosci has been in the press over the past a lot when it came down to men she frequented with such as Lisa Raye’s ex husband, singer Raphael Saadiq, and now Eddie Murphy. I am a bit of a feminist and all down with women exploring their sexuality so I am not judging her sexual past or activity but Bringing Eddie Murphy on the red carpet and being seen half naked on the beach with him is where she has crossed the line.
Eddie Murphy is a bit icky. He has been caught in cars with transgender prostitutes and also abandoned Mel B. (formerly of the Spice Girls) once she got pregnant and decided to keep the baby many years back. It took him a few years to even acknowlege the baby. I understand he has a lot of money and power but where do we as women draw the line?
You can’t tell me that Rosci is just naturally attracted to Eddie. I can’t and won’t believe that or indulge in that kind of fuckery. She is in it for the dough and he is in it for the pleasure of freaking off just another “exotic” looking young chick who has a little fame. Hell since when did Eddie Murphy started going to the negro awards?
Now I’m not knocking Rosci, get your money Baby girl… But she should have some kind of standards for herself. There are just some mofos no one should know you are dealing with, sorry! If she were going to have sex with Eddie or even deal with him in general, she should have kept that as her little secret. That could have been her little sugar daddy that no one knew about but when you put it out there for the world to see, youre giving off the impression that you are serious about the guy and I can’t respect her if she’s taking this debacle seriously.
We women must remember to keep things on the low low when it’s just “business” or when it’s just cocksation and not give light to those who may not be in our life in a few months from now. She must also think about her career in entertainment as a female.
Females in entertainment already receive a bad rap. Many view industry girls as professionals who are really groupies on the low. Yeah I never saw so many Publicists and Stylists in my life. I just charge it to the game. It’s hard to get respect out here and he decides to be boo love at the BET Awards where her peers are and former bosses (because she got the boot a few months ago). Now if it was the Tonys or something that would have been a different story (networking).
Rosci can’t make irresponsible decisions such as letting the cat come out of the bag about her love life then get mad when rappers refer to her as a hoe or when they disrespect her by saying they will blow up how many dudes she really let dick her down in the industry.
All I can say is good luck Rosci. I hope whatever role or status you are trying to get in LA by dealing with Eddie will turn out to be fruitful for you in the future.
I wish these chicks would put in work without putting out but I guess this is the way of life in today’s society.
Damn!
Well said! She has a reputation out there and it is not a good look!
I agree! She can’t be seriously into him. Shit I thought it was a joke at first!
She should date whomever she likes but I agree with Tionna…some things should b kept secret and some moves people choose 2 make 2 advance their careers tend 2 kill the career instead…only time will tell the repercussions of her decisions. I’m not one 2 judge but I just smh @ the situation because as a woman I could not date or sleep with a guy who publicly denied his kid…famous or not…check out my site http://www.roulettewood.com for high fashion custom made designs!
I am not and have never been a fan of Rocsi. There’s just that something about her. I myself believe in keeping a low profile love life. All the pics I’ve seen with Eddie and Rosci looks as if she’s uncomfortable. She very much aware of the public’s opinion of their relationship(whatever it is). This man has a shaky past with a whole lot of drama that we don’t know the half of. Not sure of her aim but I’m sure of his. Rocsi will lose more than she can imagine once the fuckery is over. I can’t take this situation serious..
Well said! I believe its not what you do, but how you do it. For Rocsi to just come into this industry, she’s making an ugly name for herself. Also, by her being the host of 106 and park where young ladies watch her everyday, why not set an example on how to conduct yourself in the public eye, and keep your personal life separate. My opinion.
P.s. what do you think about Tracy Edmonds?????
So what. We all kno Beyonce wouldn’t be with Jay if he wasn’t who he is. Jay ain’t cute. And Terrence is dating Selita Ebanks who is a big hoe. Why u ain’t calling her out. She dating nick Cannon, a couple football players, Kanye west and the list go on. U hating Tionna. Let Rocsi & Eddie be in love. You don’t know if they are serious or what.
I’m going to have to agree with everything this person said.
Thank you!!!! Don’t hate on Rocsi when we got ppl like Kim Kardashian who sucked her way to the top. Atleast Rocsi on tv as a host and did radio before that. Kim K ain’t got no talent & go from man to man. Rocsi may be a hoe but if u gonna call her out call them all out. Justsayin
I totally agree with you Tee, this picture doesn’t even show any emotion they don’t look like they are in like. Coming from me I thought Eddie was a homosexual or should I say he’s on the DownLow. But anyway if that is what Rosci want, Hunny get your money.. I hope she isn’t having unsafe sex.
Rocsi is a joke I haven’t been able to stomach her since the Lisa Ray debacle and Eddie I don’t know what on earth to say about him. He’s is the black John Travolta. Come on out the closet already. No need to FRONT any longer it’s 2012.
Well said. I felt the same when I heard that she was dealing with this dude. Just thinking about it makes my stomach hurts.
Rocsi is young fabulous & dating…no babies…U wud if u cud
honestly I wouldn’t.
Rocsi is a mess. I’m sorry but there is no way I can be apart of any man that dogs their children out and more importantly one that sleeps with other men. I get it there are different strokes for different folks, but there is no amount of money worth perishing for. If she is interested in building her brand, she has to be careful how she incorporates her personal life into her professional world. Look at K. Michelle’s struggle; business and pleasure should not intertwine.
I agree with your post 100 percent! I couldnt have said it better myself!
Take a look at this link. It will put some ‘perspective’ on Eddie Murphy. A new book entitled, “Why I Sued Eddie Murphy.” http://www.poorpennyproductions.com/index/Why_I_sued_Eddie_Murphy