I wasn’t going to comment on this but wooh this custody battle between Usher and Tameka is really heating up. He says she tried to beat the girlfriend up and spit on her too; she says he had sex with one of her bridemaids… Eesh, stuff is getting too real.
Well first of all I don’t know Usher and I never got any real information from my co-star about him so my opinion is my opinion… I believe that Usher is a little off mentally. Sure he is talented but I think that he was turned out too early in the business to ever have a mature, functional, relationship. Something about him is weird and totally grosses me out.
First of all, no offense to Tameka, but even Stevie Wonder could see that The marriage between Usher and Tameka wasn’t going to work. She was an older woman with her own children already and he was a young man in the prime of his career. Stories like this usually end up bad. He called off the first wedding and then went ahead to marry her anyway.
As grown people, we need to go with our first instinct. We have to stop rationalizing fuckery when it comes down to our relationships. Now Tameka has always received a bad rap because everyone in America wanted Usher to be with my former co-star but obviously being the sexual maniac that Usher is, that clearly wasn’t going to happen. Call it timimg… When Usher and my former co-star hooked up he was a very young man. He was still wet behind his ears and although they looked good together and was the same color, things didn’t work out. My sources tell me that she and him used to laugh all day and just have fun but I guess the joke was on her that one fateful night when he went and screwed some groupie chick like it was the last piece of pum pum he was ever going to get. He’s such a whore!
After he and my former co-star broke it off, he got with another woman who was also 8 years oler than him. Only this time, he fell in love with a dark skinned, strong featured, woman who was known to whoop a few asses in the streets of California. People were shocked and appalled and deep down inside I know it was because she was dark. People couldn’t believe that a superstar like Usher would not marry a “beautiful” woman but go on to marry someone who looks like Tameka. So sad that people still believe in 2012 that looks matter. Looks do not matter! A man is going to choose the woman he want to be with, bottom line!
You can say what you want about Tameka but Usher ass married her! She had to be something right if his ass made it his business to put a ring on it even though she already had three children. Now let’s fast forward, Usher and Tameka break up and head to divorce court… And in true Usher fashion, he goes and make a song about it called Papers. So the majority of us wouldnt have known what was going on if Usher didn’t croon about it on his song. Usher has the habit of benefitting financially from failed romances or assumptions. Hell, he better been lucky he wasn’t dating me and people thought the whole Confessions album was about me because I would have had not only the platinum plaque on my wall but a few millis just off of GP.
Anyway, now Usher is with another older broad which make me wonder what is he hiding that he is always going after these older women. He has a mother so that is not an excuse. He gets with this woman named Grace who is worse than any of the women he has been involved with (looks wise) and now he wants FULL Custody of the kids.
There is no way in history a judge is going to give a pill popping, pop-star, like Usher full custody. How the hell is he going to take care of two young boys when his ass is always on the road? What is he going to leave the children with his grandmoms, I mean girlfriend, Grace? It’s just a lot of fuckery. He knows damn well he wants full custody so his ass wouldn’t have to pay child support. Yeah a move taken out of the Dwayne Wade Book of Divorce. I have witnessed crack heads keep custody of their children so they are wasting their time with this crap. Share custody for the kids sake because a child needs both their mother and father.
If Tameka is ordered to leave the mansion, she should just leave! Go and get a condo or townhome like the rest of us because people with money have a strange way of getting you out of their home when they want you out. Hmmmm.
Court is in recess until July. We shall see where this goes but I hope they get it together because no one suffers as much as the kids do in these situations. I also recommend that they all go to family therapy because how are they going to raise children together if they can’t get along???? And yeah keep your family legal business off of Twitter and Facebook because it is not cute.
I know from looking at the above picture, you may think that Tameka is crazy but I think that maybe she just know that he is trying to get the public on his side and since she was his stylist and been around him all of these years she know that he is not going to win. I know she has a lot of dirt that she can tell if in fact he tries to blow her up and assassinate her character. Tameka is a lot of things but stupid is not one of them. Hell, she was smart enough to get his ass to marry her.
What do you think Usher and Tameka should do about this child custody case? Comment and share!
I agree with you on he does not need full custody because he is on the road. Hell why does he want full custody?? So he won’t have to pay child support!! He can’t say that she is a bad mother ….. If so then why have a second child with her? I think on his end he doesn’t want to pay … On her end she is being the typical black woman from the hood and giving him the dirty fight he is asking for. She needs to keep custody and he needs the standard every other weekend alternating holidays that the po folks get! Smh …. Grown ass going to court with a fucking Mohawk …. That pissed me off the most! Love you girl!!
Girl Usher done changed… He really turned out and that Mohawk hunty… Them glasses-yuck!
Girl.. I do agree. I was saying the other day that Mohawk is not it. Usher needs to grow up. I know your costar is some where thanking God she dogged that bullet.
Girl please she still wishing he’d come back…smh
One min u say looks don’t matter next u pt out how grace is the worst looking one he has been with. So looks matter to someone. I think ppl didn’t like tameka cause she was older and had 3kids…her and chilli are pretty close in skin complexion I mean tameka is darker but u wouldn’t classify chili as light either. I think they need to grow up and have shared custody he can afford child support if he has too..the money off justin beiber alone can handle that lol
Looks dont matter but Grace is a mess and yeah hes holdin on to that moola!
Besides Justin about to sign with the money team lol
I love me some Usher but he just seems to be a little off here lately. They both need to act like adults, settle this and move on. It’s getting ridiculous and out of hand.
The custody should be shared for the sake of the children provided that each parent is suitable to care for the children. If a parent(i.e. Usher) is not suitable to care for the children, then the time spent with the children should be supervised. Children love their parents unconditionally and are the most impacted in child custody cases. For the sake of the children, I am praying that Usher and Tameka can come to an agreement keeping the kids best interest in mind and not their own.
I’m on the outside looking in so I’m not going to judge neither parent for their actions other than saying…KEEP YOUR BUSINESS OFF TWITTER! Lol
Wow Tionna U went IN. But U made sum vry valid points. I dont have much 2 say abt their situation but lk U said they need 2 get it tgthr 4 the kids & leave themselves out of it.
You are right the marriage was doomed from day one. I never liked Tameka it was not because of her skin tone. Any woman that walks out on her husband and children to run off with another man is trash in my book. Usher was wrong for hooking up with that married woman.
T, I know this is ur opinion, but it seems a bit one sided! Dies Usher need full custody of the kids, no, bit Tameka is no saint either. From what I hear she put het ex husband(who’s last name she never went by) thru the same hell. Also, doesn’t he have custody of her two sons as well? Also, why is no one addressing how she stays on Twitter arguing with bloggers and putting all her business out there for public display. She’s a very I secure woman who needs counseling!
I said stay off of twitter and facebook. Ish is crazy. And i said they need family counseling!
I think that it’s funny that you would go into usher’s background and not hers. This wasn’t an opinion on the case but a rag on him. Just because she is a woman don’t make her a good mother n him a popstar don’t make him a bad dad. They want both knew what they were getting into before they married. Good parents have their children’s best interest in mind and that is bring civilized. If they go with her they will be raised by nannies so what’s the difference. They.
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No disrespect Tionna, this would have been a great article If you had remained neutral. If you ask me they both seem a little off, esp Tameka! She knew what she was getting into before she married the kid but she married him any way. As far as Usher, asking for full custody that’s crazy. How does he plan on taking care of these kids with his busy schedule? But no one asked for my opinion so I’ll end on this note. At the end of the day it’s the kids who are suffering. I can careless about any tears either parent has shed, who’s heart is broken or who’s pride is bruised. I feel sorry for these children!
No one in this world is perfect. Usher made mistakes in his past relationship,but that does not make him a horrible person or a weirdo. He simply is dating and forming relationships with the wrong women. I have to agree with you that no one approved of his ex wife because she is not a hollywood beauty queen.There relationship was doomed from the start. We get most of our assumptions from gossip, so there is more to their relationship than we know. For goodness sake his own mother, his number one support did not support or go to his wedding. That says a lot. It was a rushed put together wedding. He burnt a lot of bridges marrying this woman. At the end of the day they both made their bed and they are laying hard in it. I think she has a few screws missing. Did she ever consider that the same man that she slammed on her twitter is the father of her children she share a bed with him. He made her life real comfortable. I think it is pathetic. What every happened to privacy. He has never slammed her once in the media. Its an abusive situation. No one is a winner except for his mother. She is probably sitting back laughing talking about I told you so.
Bullshit ain’t nothing! Her ass knew just what she was doing when she set out for his ass & he should have known better and did better! I bet he wishes he had listened to his mother bcuz in this case mother surely knew best.
This one was excellent to read!! I loved it! Plus u probably saved a few lives with the “we need to stop rationalizing fuckery when it comes down to our relationships”…..the realest shit I heard all fukn year. Usher really does need 2have several seats wit that full custody BS. Boy stop.
I don’t believe ppl didn’t like tameka because she was dark-skinned. I believe they didn’t like her because she was outspoken and wasn’t your normal next top model these stars normally hook up with. I love usher and I always loved chilli of tlc. But that’s just musically I don’t know them personally to speak. But tameka was just not the type to just sit and let someone talk about her and I wouldn’t either! You shouldn’t judge anyone by rumors.
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