I always used to hear other women say, “I hate having female friends,” and every time I heard that I would debate with them about that statement. My argument was that every girl need female friends for shopping, to gossip with, and to make moves with so all the boys could be open. I often dreamed of having this “power crew” but as time moved on, I realized that that my dream was damn near impossible with the kind of chicks I was hanging with.
Bishes are JEALOUS! Poor bishes are jealous and rich bishes are even more jealous. The poor ones are jealous because they don’t have enough money to do the things you do and go the places you go and the rich ones are jealous because they don’t have no swag and even with all the money in the world, they can’t accomplish any task successfully. Most rich bishes married into money (and I am not mad at ya for doing so) so they didn’t grind like the rest of us. They want to prove to their mate and the rest of the world that they are hustlas when in fact they really are not; and there is nothing wrong with not being a hustla. Hell, some have it, some don’t. Can’t be mad at that.
I knew this before but I really know it now, bishes try to be your friend when you are motivated because they need someone to be their “career coach” and give them ammunition when they don’t feel like doing anything today. They know that no matter what, you are on 100 and is going to at least uplift their go getta spirit to at least a 50.
You start out being their motivation and the next thing you know, they wake up with the bright idea that they want to be the MOTIVATOR, the LEADER of the grind in the crew. These type of chicks don’t want to be the student anymore. They want to take over and get you out of business. These are delusional people who truly need psychological help. They want to fight the teacher like their name is Tommy Gunn (all my Rocky V fans know who Tommy Gunn is).
They look at what you do and say, oh I am going to do the same thing but I am going to do it better…She has a blog, oh no, I am going to put this on my blog. She has a new show, oh no, I am going to get a better show. She has a store in Brooklyn selling accessories, I am going to help some bish who never wore accessories in her life start her own accessories company. Except they started online. LOL. You know people never have the heart or the money to do certain things when they try to infiltrate.
Everyone wants to be that CHICK but they fail miserably because no matter how much you bite off of the MOTIVATOR, you have to have the hustle in you. Being a hustla takes more than just wanting something or getting some site on Bigcartel, it takes a dream, marketing, networking, saving, strategizing, etc.
Besides people biting off of your MOTIVATION, you have those “friends” who are hasbeens. They used to have this or used to have that and are mad because you STILL have this or that. Here’s a hint: No one cares about what you used to have or used to do. All we care about is now.
Then you have the “friends” that get quiet every time you tell them about something good in your life. Yeah if you are telling her about some new deal you received and she is so quiet that you have to call out her name to see if she is still on the phone. She’s a hater- GET RID OF THAT BISH!
I mean I can go on and on about the type of chicks who I just don’t bang with but that will take more time than I have at this very moment. Chicks are just funny and I am glad that I decided to take other women advice and stay away from them for the time being. I am back hanging with my boys because there are certain things a woman shouldn’t have to deal with within her crew. When there is jealousy and envy it makes everyone in the crew look bad.
Why be jealous of someone who is supposedly your peoples? Whatever happen to if I win, you win. Chicks are just so funny. I am just glad that I decided to stay away and just do me and I advise you to do the same before you find yourself in an unfortunate situation. I have decided to cut off everyone I have to side eye because frankly, I am too busy to have to sleep with one eye open. I don’t have time for that and I don’t need secret drama and envy around me.
I truly believe the reason why I was going through some hard times in my past is because I had a bunch of jealous heffas around me waiting for my downfall. Well I guess their hater prayers wasn’t strong enough because I am still here doing me and got some big, crazy ish coming soon!!!
Pray for the haters and get rid of the frenemies…
Share your stories of hate inside of your circle!!! Damn, keep your circle like you keep your vagina (TIGHT)!!!