I decided to write this post because it’s time to keep it real about the things that’s holding us women back. A lot of us women are suffering from heart breaks, abortions, STDs, etc. because we are making the wrong choices when it comes down to choosing a mate. A lot of women are suffering from falling in love with a man who possesses the title of having “community d*ck.”
Yes, community d*ck is a penis that every girl in the world has had or can have. He has no rules to who he put that thang in; he just likes to give to the needy, the greedy, and the bishes who don’t like you. Community d*ck has no morals, he just f*cks whoever giving it up and no matter how much you love this man or cry over this man- his actions just won’t stop. This is the type of jawn that’ll f*ck your mama (if she’s down with the get down). Ugh, it goes down like that sometimes. We call that “nasty work.”
A lot of women make the mistake of wifing up a whore dude aka community d*ck in hopes that she is getting a prize but girlfriend let me be the first to tell you that a dude who screws everyone is not a prize; he’s an STD waiting to happen (hopefully a curable one). Almost every woman by the age of 30 will experience dealing with some community d*ck but there’s rules to the game. One rule is you are never supposed to fall in love with em and second rule and most important one is never, ever, ever, have a baby from em. Community d*ck is not supposed to be anywhere near your heart because at any chance they will crush it without thinking twice.
A lot of community d*ck havers like to play mind games and manipulate you into thinking they’re not all over the place; but girlfriend that is all game. The worse part is when you just get caught out there and you have no idea that they were community property. You all happy that you got a new boo and that he’s throwing that grade A meat but come to find out you and 6-7 chicks within a one block radius all had some. OMG and what makes it worse is when homie try to lie and say that he didn’t hit it or ate them all out when he know he did.
Sometimes community d*ck gets old in one community so they start to branch out to other places and that’s cool until he tells you not to post pictures of him on social network sites. You think he’s telling you that because he’s a street dude and real street dudes should never post photos on these sites but he’s telling you that because there’s at least 3-4 other chicks out there in community dickland that believe that he’s also theres. It’s a whole nasty cycle…
Now, let’s get to the real math of things. He’s screwing you plus about 4 other girls on the side and since he’s community property- he can’t possibly be there enough for all 5 women who is involved in the equation so at least half of them (you included) are having sex with someone else or two other people… Wonder where HIV and other diseases come from? Wallah, magic. Even if you are using a condom with community d*ck, you sucking him off or he’s putting that community tongue on your open, raw coochie and maybe on her and her and her open raw coochie.
Jay-Z tried to warn ya when he told you, “Never Kiss Her/Never Hold Her Hand,” and that’s the best advice I can give you if you suspect you are dealing with a whore man aka community d*cker. Now let’s be real, we are women and we women get something called our “intuition.” Women know when they are dealing with a man who just isn’t right yet they let their emotions take over and blind them. You see the text messages when you go through his phone, he never posts photos of you on his social networking sites, and he doesn’t spend enough time with you unless you include bending over on all fours in your mama house as time spent but somehow we ignore it yet we want to be faithful and most of all LOYAL to a man who just doesn’t give a flying f*ck about us.
You are a dummy if you are being loyal to a man who has never and will never be loyal to you. You’re sitting there all up in his ass and missing potential lovers who may come along and treat you right. You don’t care that he’s doing him, you just there and act as if you are Mother Theresa. That is a real mistake that many of us women make. Do you really believe that he’s going to see the light and be with you once he finishes doing him? You gotta love yourself to know that that is not the way love is supposed to go. Don’t fall into social constructs about how women are supposed to conduct themselves or fall into the pressure of taking a half a man over a real man who is for you and only YOU.
Now let’s get into titles… Every piece of raggedy sausage I know have what they call “wifey” or the main chick. They find one dummy and give her a title. She’s the chick who has the car in her name (the car her ass could never drive) and the one who is cool with the family (the same family that lets him sex other girls in their house)… She feels entitled and special because this community dicker gave her a title but I want you to sit back and think of this action as a job. What is the point of being titled an Assistant Manager and you’re getting the same pay as a Cashier?
Yeah, your title changed but your pay is still the same but now you have more work to do like be a ride or die chick to him even when his money is low, be there for him, listen to his problems, deal with his crazy mama, etc. Wow! Let me be the first to say congratulations… On what you ask? On nothing because you got a title and you still have nothing! This dude is still going to poke everything moving and do whatever he wants to do and you will be still sitting home waiting for him to wash his d*ck off and come home to you as long as he make it home before the sun does. Come on! Is some semi-washed peen and a man who spend maybe an hour a day with you before you go to work all you want from life? Man… We’ll continue this title talk on my next post: Is Titles Ruining Your Love Life?
Anywho, stop being loyal to Non-Profit penis! It is only holding you back from being great and living the best love life you can live. Share your stories of Community d*ck! How did you shake him of? We all know that community d*ckers have some good stuff but bump that- you can save the headache and f*ck yourself!